God Didn’t Fix My Marriage! by DeeDee | Jun 13, 2016 | Blog, draft, Exclusive | 76 comments 76 Comments Iris Braxton on June 13, 2016 at 9:52 am Love you message, you are such a blessing to me. I thank God for you. Reply Rachael on June 13, 2016 at 9:53 am Good Morning Dr. Dee Dee. You’ve touched on a subject that has been on my heart for some time. My husband and I have been married for 21 years. For a long time, I thought that God just needed to fix my husband so that we could have the marriage I wanted. It wasn’t until later that I discovered that I needed God to work on ME so that I could be the wife I was called to be. Thanks so much for your love, your wisdom and your ability to share with us by making it plain, letting us know that all things are possible through Christ, especially having a God-favored, Godly-blessed marriage/covenant. Love you much Dr. Dee Dee!! Reply Renee L on June 13, 2016 at 9:53 am Absolutely wonderful! Nice tone for the day, I felt your heart Your love. Thanks for the daily inspiration. Reply Terri Williams on June 13, 2016 at 9:54 am I Love You My Sister In Christ , Such A Sweet Inspiration !!!! You’re Trully A Treasure Here On Earth For People. Reply Shaun on June 13, 2016 at 9:57 am Thank you Dr. DeeDee for your wonderful words of encouragement. It’s always right on time! Reply Shenae on June 13, 2016 at 10:01 am Thank you so much. I am sooo appreciative of the positive image of marriage that I get from you guys. Most of us don’t get to see that. At this time my marriage is so far in the dumps, but I am still in faith that God will restore my marriage. I the mean time I will be working on me. Thank You for being awesome role model and an awesome woman of God. Reply Dr Schanette Hebert on June 13, 2016 at 10:03 am Awesome!! I love the video blog. I don’t always get the opportunity to read them fully. It is wonderful having the video or even audio option. Thank you, truly a blessing!! Reply LISA on June 13, 2016 at 10:05 am THANK YOU PASTOR DEE DEE!! LOVE YOU Reply Elsie Taylor on June 13, 2016 at 10:06 am OMG, this really blessed me today ,just to see you in person. It’s how you took the time to do this . I’m sure so many are blessed by this . I get so excited every time I see you and Dr. Mike in the marriage sessions on tv and I’m a 73 year old widow. Keep doing what you are doing .when I get an opportunity I want to visit Spirt of Faith again. Please sy a prayer for my son Dallas. May God continue to Bless your ministry in Jesus name! Reply Diane on June 13, 2016 at 10:11 am Thank you. Encouraging word for a bride to be. I’m getting married for the first time in my 60’s. I look forward to your blogs and teachiing. It’s like a girl friend talk. Blessings! Reply Eboni A Blair on June 13, 2016 at 10:12 am Yeeessssssssss! Reply Chanda on June 13, 2016 at 10:13 am Thank you, Dr. DeeDee! The message is on point! Reply Keiona on June 13, 2016 at 10:15 am Yes thank you.. Great word! Reply Tonjia Pettway on June 13, 2016 at 10:21 am I love it. Thanks for encouraging and thanks for being so transparent and sharing. You are truly a blessing to the kingdom. Reply Rhonda P on June 13, 2016 at 10:28 am That message blessed my life. Thank you Dr. Dee Dee for taking time to speak to us and for sharing your heart. I so love you! Reply Sharen Johnson on June 13, 2016 at 10:28 am I receive!!! Thank you …Much love❤ Reply Tanya Gilmore on June 13, 2016 at 10:37 am Thanks Dr DeeDee. Awesome word. Your my She Row. I love you and there’s nothing you can do about it. Lol. Have a great week Reply Angelique Martin 🇹🇹 on June 13, 2016 at 10:41 am LOVE Dr.DeeDee💖💘💝 HAPPY ANNIVERSARY to you and Dr.Mike My husband (Shaun) and I CELEBRATE💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿you both. PS.We have 31 years also July 20. Reply Rena on June 13, 2016 at 10:45 am Loved your post this morning. I could write a book about marriage. Glad to be single again. Married too young and now regretting that decision after having lost two houses and half of my retirement. Women protect yourselves if you are getting divorced after being married for over twenty years. Pray and protect yourselves. Praying no woman will face what I endured after having a stroke from all the stress of a broken relationship, loss of houses, car, job, and health.I consider myself still young at 53 and I am still here with a praise. God is awesome. Lifting weights, eating right, and getting better, AND planning to buy another house next year. God will do it again and again! Reply Nakida Simmons on June 13, 2016 at 10:45 am God is awesome! And so true to His WORD. I thank God for putting the right people in my life at the right time. This message could not come at a better time. Continue to be humble and share your Faith. May God continue to Bless you and your family today, tomorrow and forever. Reply Aldrena Jenkins on June 13, 2016 at 10:52 am Good morning, Dr. DeeDee, I needed this my husband and I was separated for about a month and half for the second time…but I decided to walk what I’ve studying and reading. I thank God for confirming for my decision. Reply Bertrene Cage on June 13, 2016 at 10:55 am Thanks Dr. DeeDee!!! Reply Sherritta on June 13, 2016 at 11:00 am Always encouraged by your wisdom. Thnx for being so instrumental in my life. My life is better bcuz of YOU❤️ Reply Bridgette Williams on June 13, 2016 at 11:03 am You’re amazing Dr. DeeDee. I’m divorced, and a renewed virgin. 😀 I’m looking to God and working on me daily to be s better me. Thank you for the encouragement this morning, it was a blessing to not only hear your voice, but to see that beautiful smile today. Thank you for taking the time to sow richly into us. May God continue to richly bless yours and Pastor Mikes marriage. Thank you for your prayers, I pray for both you Pastor Mike, and your ministry. I love you both. Reply Lynette on June 13, 2016 at 11:24 am Wow great motivation and encouragement, Dr. Deedee you are a real inspiration to me. Thank you! Reply Joy D on June 13, 2016 at 11:31 am Thank you Dr. Dee Dee for taking time out to make this beautiful video! I love and appreciate you and all that you do more than words could ever express. You are truly a phenomenal woman of whom I am humbly honored to have in my life. Rejoice and enjoy this beautiful day the Lord has made!! Reply Sheila C. on June 13, 2016 at 11:43 am Thanks Dr. Dee Dee for those words. Reply Shampayne Lloyd on June 13, 2016 at 12:01 pm This also applies to every area of our lives! I’m using it!! Reply Delphine Wiggins on June 13, 2016 at 12:04 pm Beautiful and inspiring message for all that are married and those who desire to be married one day! Thanks for being a blessing Dr. Dee Dee! Reply Maddie on June 13, 2016 at 12:11 pm Love it Dr. Dee Dee! You all are GREAT examples for US to follow and leaves us with NO-EXCUSE. Thank you 🙂 Reply Angela Lowe on June 13, 2016 at 12:32 pm Wow, thank you for the kind words. Happy Anniversary Month! Celebrate the entire month. You and your husband are truly AWESOME!! <3 <3 Reply Teresa on June 13, 2016 at 12:32 pm I just love your spirit! I ask God to continue to bless you and your family. Reply Karmen Walls on June 13, 2016 at 12:38 pm Thank you so much Dr Dee Dee for this word . It has definitely touched me today. My husband and I have been married for 2 years and we are struggling with some things, but failure is not a option , and like you also said , Faith without work is dead . So we are gonna continue to fight this good fight together, and give God the glory through it all!! Thank you and may God bless you and Dr Mike and your family Reply Ardra on June 13, 2016 at 12:39 pm I love video blog! Thanks for sharing. Reply Sheniada on June 13, 2016 at 12:53 pm Another good one Dr.DerDee and here I was waiting on God but you are absolutely right. In listening to guys all these years along with Apostle Price & Dr. Betty I should have known. Thanks for sharing always. See you soon I hope! Reply Neola on June 13, 2016 at 1:12 pm Good Afternoon Dr. DeeDee: Thank you for your words of instruction on fix my marriage. Even though I have been married for forty seven years there are things that I change in me to make it better! You have a birthday coming up on June 15 so HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!! Reply Monique on June 13, 2016 at 1:13 pm Love this, thank you Dr. Dee Dee Reply Michelle McCaa on June 13, 2016 at 1:14 pm God bless you Dr. Dee Dee! I have not been blessed with a husband but wanted to let you know that I appreciate you because you have been a blessing to me. Thank u! Reply Deitra C. on June 13, 2016 at 1:18 pm Thank you Dr. Dee Dee, happy 31st Anniversary and may you and your husband have many more. Blessings to you both. Reply April on June 13, 2016 at 1:20 pm Thank you Dr. DeeDee awesone message and so much needed in this time. I’ve been married 24 years and as you the first 9 to 10 were truly hell on earth, but thank God for His word as a manual for marriage and thank God for you and Pastor Mike, been following you both since moving to Virginia. May God continue to bless and prosper your marriage. Reply Carol C on June 13, 2016 at 1:32 pm I need prayer……Really struggling right now. 🙃 Reply Tanya Blackmon on June 13, 2016 at 2:19 pm Dr. DeeDee I Thank God for you and Pastor Mike daily, Please know that we woman in the body of Christ cherish all that you bring to the body. My example of the Proverbs 31 woman right here in the earth-in the 21st century. Thank you Lord, we love the Freeman’s!!!! Reply D'Angela Davis on June 13, 2016 at 3:29 pm Thank You So Much!! Dr. DeeDee You’re Truly A Blessing & Inspiration! Great Role Model! Reply Augustine Womble on June 13, 2016 at 4:54 pm I receive, thanks for the reminder.😊 Reply Faith Is the Substance on June 13, 2016 at 8:19 pm Very Well Said! Every time I see you and Pastor Mike, I tear up because what you have is so awesome. I know you hear all the time how inspiring your marriage has been but the Hell you went through for the first 7-8 years you need to hear it all the time “I Think”. I am in the process of getting a divorce, my husband filed and as I listened to your video I asked myself a question in reference to fixing me what can I do now that will help save my marriage. I don’t have all the answers but I am willing to do the work. Pray for us, please keep us in your prayers. I believe that my marriage has a divine purpose and a divorce would interfere with the plan of God. His mother is a big supporter of the divorce and he has left home in moved with his parents. Thank you for your words of encouragement, your blog and your prayers! I am standing in faith. Reply V on June 13, 2016 at 9:48 pm Nothing like bragging on God to the World! Your marriage testimony is a blessing and a guide to the saved and unsaved. I Thank God for the road map. Reply Tennille M on June 14, 2016 at 12:13 am I enjoyed your message. I am not married yet but thank you for providing the tools to utilize in the near future. I am looking forward to the next empowering message. God bless! Reply Dana on June 14, 2016 at 12:41 am Awesome words of wisdom! Thank you! Reply Almeta Bowman on June 14, 2016 at 12:43 am God bless you Precious I pray that all is well with you and your family. I thank God for your amazing kindness, thoughtfulness, support and Wisdom in the sweet, Loving, Powerful, caring, Healing, forgiving, peaceful, Perfecting, Miraculous and on time name of Jesus Always Love ❤ Rev.Mother Queen Almeta Bowman Reply Felicia on June 14, 2016 at 6:54 am I am going to fix me. Thank any and I love the video. Reply Jonie on June 14, 2016 at 11:26 am Excellent words of encouragement, I receive, believe and will continue to apply these words of wisdom. Thank you ☺️ Reply Nicole on June 14, 2016 at 11:39 am Praise the Lord! Confirming what the Lord spoke through me on a women’s devotional for married women last night. Work on you, your relationship with the Lord! We have to do our parts as wives, we have to know our spiritual position in marriage and live it out. Inspite of what our husbands are doing and not doing. We obtain the favor and grace of God as wives. Allow the Lord to work a work in us as wives and in due time you shall reap what you sow. Praise God! Reply Dottie Williams on June 14, 2016 at 12:06 pm So on point! I receive every word you spoke in that video. I have been married for 36 years and I know exactly what you are talking about. I told God that I was going to divorce my husband and God spoke back and said no, you are going to “divorce his ways”, that was profound and only I can understand that. From that point, I have seen our marriage go to another level, it is all good and must seek God and wait to hear his voice. Thanks again Dr. Dee Dee for your awesome testimony and caring for your Sisters in Christ Jesus! Reply Paula DuBose on June 14, 2016 at 12:10 pm Thank you! Working on being a better me daily. We focus on other things and people because we don’t want to look at ourselves. The only person I can change is me. Always blessed by the blogs! Reply Sheronda on June 14, 2016 at 12:12 pm Awesome message Reply Aida Reed on June 14, 2016 at 1:24 pm Great Words of Wisdom. We’re equipped to succeed! Reply Valerie Amlak on June 14, 2016 at 1:34 pm God Bless you Dr. DeeDee! I could hear your heart in your message today. I pray that young women take heed to your words. By the way, saw you and Dr. freeman on Daystar last night. Looked Great! I was sooo proud! Reply Keesha on June 14, 2016 at 1:47 pm This message has given me the strength to take a deep breath and finish the race! Thank you woman of God. Reply Charlene Brooks on June 14, 2016 at 2:20 pm I love to here your encouraging words. Wow my marriage for the first 7 maybe 8 was Whew!!!! OMG!!! It will be 17 years this July. Reply Denise on June 14, 2016 at 3:12 pm Thank you so much for your obedience! This was so on time! Love you to life! Reply Keisha on June 14, 2016 at 5:00 pm This personalized message made my day. Thank you!! Today my husband and I have been married for 24 yrs. Reply DeeDee on June 15, 2016 at 11:16 pm That’s Awesome! Congratulations!!! Reply JanLe on June 14, 2016 at 5:10 pm That was really good insight. Thanks Dr. DeeDee! Reply Pastor Penny on June 14, 2016 at 5:58 pm Love it!! You are such a blessing!! Hugs and love! Reply Tanisha Wash on June 14, 2016 at 7:30 pm Please help me to fix my marriage me and my husband and not seeing eye to eye I said a lot of wrong things to him and I don’t trust him what can I do to get my marriage back I feel like I have fallen out of love but I want to fall back in love with my husband please help me what can I do to trust him again and love him again please help I want my marriage back Reply Nichole Renee on June 15, 2016 at 11:02 am Dr. Dee dee thank you so much for your love, faithfulness, and just allowing God to use you. Blessings, love, and big hugs to you. Nichole Renee Forty Four Angels Reply Sandjena on June 15, 2016 at 5:38 pm That’s so awesome! Congratulations on your anniversary, I hope you both are enjoying celebrating. I so look forward to your posts each week. Thank you for your realness and encouragement! God bless you! Reply Jerika fulton on June 15, 2016 at 7:02 pm Congratulations Dr deedee!!! Great message of encouragement!! I just ministered this week about faith and working your faith! 😊 Reply Antoinette on June 16, 2016 at 10:44 am I’ve looked in the mirror so many times, and asked myself is it me. Year after year after year, and nothing changes. I cook, I fulfill his needs sexually, I walk in the first lady role with love, integrity, and dignity, and it’s never enough, I’m still on the level he thinks he is on. His closet filthy, trashy, stinky and nasty day after day. But on Sunday mornings he so perfect to the congregation. Pastor, pastor, pastor… All they see and know is that he can preach. No one knows the nasty, selfish, evil, man he really is. The man that acts like he supports me but won’t say a positive word about my accomplishments, say I should do this and that in church but only what he wants me to do so it makes him look good. Your right God not gonna come down and fix a marriage. I can’t fix it or him. I hate him. I’m sick of him. I cannot be help meet to him, my words problematic for him, the truth makes him angry, reality stresses him out. Fix me – I’m a kept, blessed woman, but I’m gotten to the point that I earnestly believe the only thing that’s gonna fix this mess, is divorce. If not I’m gonna be in the street with another man so I can exhale. Reply Shenell White on June 16, 2016 at 1:20 pm I really Enjoyed your words of Encouragement!!! Thank you… Reply Latona jackson on June 17, 2016 at 1:28 pm I wld like to subscribe Reply Kenyatta Robertson on June 20, 2016 at 12:11 am Awesome!! I absolutely love this Pastor DeeDee!!! Reply Renay on June 25, 2016 at 11:24 am Thank you. Reply Dr. LaQuetta Clipps on July 11, 2016 at 10:48 am Hi Dr. Dee Dee. Thank you so much for sharing your testimony. I am not married YET! However, your words are providing me with nuggets which I can apply once that time comes. I truly appreciate your wisdom. Reply Blanche Copeland on August 27, 2016 at 9:01 am Hi I’m a new subscriber, Thank God for your life and the sharing of the word He put in you. God bless you and your ministry Reply Kimberley Gibson on September 17, 2016 at 1:01 pm I watch you guys on living by faith. Reply Submit a Comment Cancel replyYour email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *Comment Name * Email * Website Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment.